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EQ Social Competency Assessment

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"A competent leader can get efficient service from poor troops, while on the contrary an incapable leader can demoralize the best of troops"  ~ John J. Pershing


What is Emotional Intelligence?

It is the link between emotions and its impact on our work outcomes. The ability to perceive, assess and manage the emotions of oneself, and of others.  Do you understand the role of emotion and its impact on your performance?  Are you aware of your EQ strengths and deficits?


Handling Relationships

Social Competency is just one of the necessary skills that correlate to Workplace Success due to Emotional Intelligence.  It is an external look at how we relate to others.   It centers on our awareness of others feelings and needs.  Expanding to include our political acumen in how we respond to those feelings and needs of others.

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Assess the following situations and how you would characterize your current behavior.  Use the following scale:

000000A = I Consistently demonstrate this behavior
B = I Often demonstrate this behavior
C = I Sometimes demonstrate this behavior
D = I Hardly ever demonstrate this behavior


What is your Social Competency?

Below are a few questions to help determine where you are on your journey


1.     I have an intuitive sense of others feelings and needs:

00a.    Consistently
b.    Often
c.    Sometimes
d.    Hardly ever


2.    I show an active interest in others concerns and / or interests:

00a.    Consistently
b.    Often
c.    Sometimes
d.    Hardly ever


3.    I am oriented to the highest standard of customer service:

00a.    Consistently
b.    Often
c.    Sometimes
d.    Hardly ever


4.    I invest a majority of my time in employee development:

00a.    Consistently
b.    Often
c.    Sometimes
d.    Hardly ever


5.    I look for opportunities to leverage diversity though people:

00a.    Consistently
b.    Often
c.    Sometimes
d.    Hardly ever


6.    I am an effective influencer:

00a.    Consistently
b.    Often
c.    Sometimes
d.    Hardly ever


7.    I am a clear and convincing communicator:

00a.    Consistently
b.    Often
c.    Sometimes
d.    Hardly ever


8.    I inspire others:

00a.    Consistently
b.    Often
c.    Sometimes
d.    Hardly ever


9.    I am known as a change agent:   

00a.    Consistently
b.    Often
c.    Sometimes
d.    Hardly ever


10.    I easily handle confrontation:

00a.    Consistently
b.    Often
c.    Sometimes
d.    Hardly ever


11.    I am successful at conflict resolution:

00a.    Consistently
b.    Often
c.    Sometimes
d.    Hardly ever


12.    I nurture instrumental business relationships:

00a.    Consistently
b.    Often
c.    Sometimes
d.    Hardly ever


13.    I am a natural collaborator:

00a.    Consistently
b.    Often
c.    Sometimes
d.    Hardly ever


14.     I handle difficult personnel performance situations with integrity and grace:

00a.    Consistently
b.    Often
c.    Sometimes
d.    Hardly ever


15.    I help individuals and teams reach higher levels of performance:

00a.    Consistently
b.    Often
c.    Sometimes
d.    Hardly ever



Assessment Scoring

0000a.    Consistently  = 4 points
b.    Often = 3 points
c.    Sometimes = 2 points
d.    Hardly ever = 1 point


Your Quiz Score

Add the total for each letter

A_____    B_____    C_____    D_____


Here is what it means

  • Score equal to or greater than 52: Congratulations, you have exceptional social relationship skills.  Please drop by occasionally to read our blog or give advice.
  • Score 43-51:  Your social skills are relatively strong. A Women's Ally membership will help you identify the areas where additional focus will result in achieving the career you've always wanted.
  • Score 35 - 43: Your social skills may be a development area. Join to gain an understanding of where you are, develop meaningful goals, leverage site, tools, & experts for implementation, and learn how to take control of your career planning and leadership development.
  • Score less than 34:  An enhanced understanding of your leadership skills is required.  Join today!

Validate

Once you have assessed yourself, ask your friends, colleagues, mentors and supervisors to assess your social relationship skills.  This will validate your assessment or introduce potential gaps in your skill, of which you were not aware.

Is this helpful? Please let us know in the comments your thoughts on this as well as other ways we can help you with your career and training.

The author, Diahann Boock, is the founder of Women's Ally. For information about working with Diahann, check out our Programs.





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